Beyond the Booty Calls

Q: How do I tell a guy that I don't want to be just his booty call and am looking for something more serious?

If your inquiry is how to make the transition from f**k buddy to serious girlfriend, you must make it clear that the casual nature of your relationship is no longer working for you. And if you want him to take you seriously, that conversation should not take place in the bedroom, so find a neutral territory where the two of you can speak seriously and sex-free.

If you have not yet been intimately involved with this man, be really clear about your intentions from the get-go, taking care not to send mixed signals. Indeed, there are plenty of women who send the wrong message by responding to late night texts, emails and phone calls simply because they enjoy the attention and/or think that if they don’t respond the man will lose interest in pursuing them.

When it comes to the booty call some men simply cannot take a hint and will keep pushing their luck because they are taught that persistence pays off. If you continue to engage him verbally or sexually, he will keep coming back for more. In this situation actions always speak louder than words so how you behave will make the strongest statement.

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