Do Good Things Come in Small Packages?

Q: My new man is wickedly smart, stunning and sincere. The problem is our relationship is developing on an emotional, spiritual and intellectual level but not in the bedroom. I know it is because he has an unusually small penis and have done everything I can to convince him that this does not bother me. What can I say other than I am head over heels. Please tell me I am not crazy and how I can make him trust me enough to take it all the way.

This situation must be very frustrating for you. I believe that you've done just about everything you can to convince your guy that his penis size is fine with you, but when the issue of 'trust' is involved, as it seems to be here, the change may need to come from within him to be authentic and permanent. You describe him in a very positive way -- would he be open to exploring this issue in therapy? Does he acknowledge the size as a problem? If so, you might want to step back while being supportive, and let him deal with the deeper issues involved in this situation with a competent sex therapist.

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