Picking up, While Working Out

Q: I am a single guy in the market to meet new women. Many people have told me the gym is a great place to socialize, though I do not want to come across as one of those creepy guys. Any advice for mingling when it comes to working out?

I love this question! I have known a great number of couples who have met at the gym and have gone on to have successful relationships. There are certainly ways to meet new people without being obvious or creepy. The easiest way is to make eye contact and smile..hopefully they smile back. That is usually an indication they are open to talking. You could try asking to "work in" with them on a weight machine and see if they respond with more communication. If they are using a new machine or treadmill, ask them how they like it compared to the older model. If you notice the same person at the same day/time (and they noticed you), use that opportunity to strike up a conversation. Also, If they are there with a friend, sometimes it's easier (less pressure) to strike up a friendly conversation with them.

Just be careful not to suggest exercises - what looks like an innocent pick up to you might come across as body judgment. And lastly, the juice bar is a great social situation to chat up the one you've had your eye on. Good luck!

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