Should I Stay or Should I Go to the Strip Club with My New Beau?

Q: What is it with men and strip clubs??? My new partner wants me to go visit one with him and I am not sure if I should satisfy his urge. Can you tell me what to expect and how I can be sure this is the right move for me to make?

 

 

 

Your partner, asking you to visit a strip club with him, could be his way of communicating more than meets the eye. Even though it's a new relationship, have the two of you established a good foundation for communication? Do you make each other feel special and prioritize intimacy (and sex, if you've taken that step)?

By asking you to join him at a strip club, It could be that your partner is trying to open up the topic of sex or wants to share something that he'd like to try with you but is unable to talk about. Since you are questioning whether going to a strip club is the right move for you, it sounds like it might not be. Instead, you can initiate a discussion with your partner and ask what he enjoys most about strip clubs and what you might do, privately, to pleasure him. Ultimately, you can teach each other about what turns you on and enhance your emotional connection and communication at the same time.

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