Single in the Small Town

Q: Small town life is really centered around married couples, except for the bar crowd which is not great for dating. I really don't fit into either.  How can I fit in?

There are many ways in which to overcome the small town syndrome. One of the most important is to find like-minded people with whom you connect. While it may be difficult to always be the single person at the barbeque, dinner or holiday party, try not to overlook individuals just because they are coupled off. Friends are hard to come by and some of the best relationships come when people from different backgrounds and life stages connect.

The same holds true for people of different ages, social circles and interests. You may think you know everyone one around you, but if you look beyond family and friends there is a good chance you will come across interesting individuals that you never encountered before. Expanding your circle of friends or extending your geographical zone can be achieved most easily through travel, volunteering, work and of course, the Internet. I strongly recommend day trips to neighboring towns, business travel if possible and pursuing interests beyond borders. If you think big and stay positive, small town living is a great luxury.

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